Wanting Connection Without Turning It Into a Verdict Most of us want to be thought of. Not in some dramatic, needy way. Just in the ordinary human way. It feels good when someone says, “I made us reservations.” Or, “Come sit on the porch for a while.” Or, “I was thinking of you.” Or even,Continue reading “Wanting Connection Without Turning It Into a Verdict”
Category Archives: Relationships & Connection
Mom
Awareness, Cognizing Emptiness, Knowing, Seeing, Space, Presence, It – whatever name we use – is an absolutely loving mother. She opens her arms and completely allows all that arises – welcomes it, in fact. We can rest in her arms and follow her example of loving allowance or we can fight. In the end, itContinue reading “Mom”
Connection, Intimacy, and Thought
Have you ever been with someone while they were talking with you and realized somewhere in the midst of them speaking that you haven’t heard anything that they said? If so, you’re not alone. I’ve done that more than I care to admit. Whether with a client, a friend, a coworker, or my wife Ami,Continue reading “Connection, Intimacy, and Thought”
The Magic Card for Couples
I usually provide this on a pocket-sized card format to couples I’m seeing. They use it to stay pointed in the right direction between our meetings. I hope you find it useful. The Magic Card for Couples -You are always feeling your thinking in the moment; you aren’t feeling ‘the relationship’. -Your feelings are feedbackContinue reading “The Magic Card for Couples”